My attitude toward New Year's and New Year's resolutions has varied through
the years. One year, a long time ago, I observed that December 31st and January
1st were pretty much the same days. The economy was the same, politics were the
same, and the season (and often the weather) was pretty much the same. I was
also the same: I looked the same, usually weighed the same (though typically
more than a month earlier), and generally felt about the same.
That year, in fact, I was quietly reading H.G. Wells' The Outline of
History when the clock on my VCR switched from 11:59pm to 12:00am. It was
another minute, a 59 changing back to a zero, a 1 changing to a 2. Sure, other
parts of our date/time structure were rolling over as well--December to January,
1991 (as it was) to 1992. But apart from that little change on the VCR, nothing
that I could see or feel or sense in any other way had changed.
This was even true when the year change from 1999 to 2000, a millennial event
that was feared to trigger widespread failure of many critical computer systems.
And yet again, the moment of rollover was a non-event, even though we rolled
over a year, a decade, a century, and a millennia all at once. Indeed, the
problems of the world that were there before were still there after. (As a
programmer, by the way, I'm fully aware of the kinds of ridiculous shortcuts
that programmers are prone to take. I had no doubt that the Y2K bug was a real
concern and that many systems needed to be fixed. But I also figured that the
most critical ones would have obviously been fixed first, or supported by newer,
redundant systems if there was uncertainty. We didn't see any catastrophic
failures, and though I imagine that various problems did occur, none of them
were sufficiently significant to surface to public awareness.)
In any case, such non-events remind us how arbitrary our calendars really
are. Any point in our planet's journey around the sun can be the first day of
the "year," as we see in other cultures. That same year, in fact, I had a
Seattle Mariners Baseball Team calendar that ran April to March, April being the
new year in Baseball Reality.
To my mind, this means that there's no logical reason to wait for a new year,
essentially a random division in time, to change something about myself that's
worth changing--there is real truth in the saying, "Today is the first day of
the rest of your life." If some life change is a good thing to do, do it now!
When you can see every day as a new beginning, that energy of newness can be
harnessed and directed toward immediate personal transformation.
With this in mind, for a time, I considered the practice of making New Year's
resolutions rather pointless, or perhaps an unspoken form of group therapy. It
seemed like a purification ceremony after the typical orgy of the holiday season
where most of us spend too much, eat too much, and collectively postpone
whatever Day of Reckoning will inevitably come.
And yet there is something more happening under the covers that has since
changed my feelings on the matter. I don't know if it's ever been studied, but I
would wager real money that people, in general, literally find it easier to set
about establishing healthier habits or making resolutions on or shortly after
our New Year's Day than at other times the year, and especially more than at
times it would go completely against the cultural norm (such as the days closest
to Christmas). And I think if you asked people, they'd say there's just
"something in the air" that made them feel supported in their resolutions.
That something is likely what scientist Rupert Sheldrake in The Rebirth
of Nature calls "morphic resonance," a way of saying that mass
consciousness has a very real and tangible influence even if we don't have a way
to objectively measure it. One study (I don't know if it was Sheldrake's or
not), showed that people found it easier to solve the New York Times crossword
puzzle the day after it was published than on the first day of
publication, presumably because it had already been solved by thousands of
people on day one. The solution, in other words, had become a stronger part of
the collective consciousness. Those who then later attuned themselves to that
consciousness (by working the puzzle), found the solution more reasily
accessible.
I've experienced a similar phenomenon around a particular choral piece of the
Christ Lives! oratorio by J. Donald Walters (aka Swami Kriyananda),
performances of which (in whole and part) I've been able to participate in on
many occasions. When the oratorio was first composed in 1985, there were eleven
choral pieces; a twelfth was added in 1996 only a few days before a major
performance in Palo Alto, California. For some years after that, though there
were always talented singers to work with, that twelfth piece, Sing Out with
Joy, always seemed to be more difficult to perform than the others. I would
say that it's only been in the last couple of years that the song has finally
found its stride, as if the song really needed to be performed in public a
certain number of times before it "got comfortable" with itself, or we as
musicians had formed had finally given it enough cumulative energy. (In fact,
major performances of Sing Out with Joy were rare in its first decade, in contrast to the original
oratorio that was performed quite frequently in its early years.)
Thus while I still completely believe that any of us can start fresh on any
day we choose at any time we choose, joining the in fun of making New Year's
resolutions--especially if you sincerely mean to make a change in
yourself--gives your resolve an added boost, like catching a wave at just the
right moment. Sure, you can always swim to shore without that wave, but only a
fool would refuse to take advantage of such a wave by calling it irrelevant or
arbitrary.
In the end, and despite the fact that many New Year's resolutions don't last
more than a week, let alone a month or the entire year, having such a regular
collectively-focused time is wonderfully valuable. Support for life-transforming
decisions can be found at any time of the year within smaller groups of people,
of course (as in focused group retreats), but having a time when the supportive
thoughts of millions of people are "in the air" is truly an opportunity to
celebrate.
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